I have always had a desire to inspire people through my words, my work, and my writing. With the creation of this blog, it is my hope that I can somehow have a positive and profound impact on the lives of my readers. Here, you will find a cup of inspiration that just may get you through a challenging time and help to lift you up. Through this blog, I will share content about what has inspired me to improve the quality of my life. Topics will be geared towards self-empowerment for women through various avenues. It is my sincere hope that with the emergence of this blog, I will have inspired someone to live their life purposely and with great pride and respect for who they were created to be. Feel free to browse previous posts and follow me on this journey to personal freedom.
Building on your strengths is often difficult when aspiring to accomplish your goals. Sometimes, regardless of how much you believe in yourself, the road to success proves to be more difficult to maneuver than you anticipated. Rest assured that you can make a change because it is not the road that is the problem, but how you choose to travel. You must learn to be your biggest supporter, or you just may find it seemingly impossible to achieve success.
Often times, we allow others to dictate who we are, what we will become, and what we will accomplish. In many cases, these opinions come from a preconceived notion about our talents, skills, and abilities. It is decided for us what we are capable of and where our shortcomings lie. Without so much as a thought, we allow these opinions to become the guiding principles by which we live.
Deep down in the core of your being, you know who you are and may be in tune with who you are to become. But when you give others the power to decide the quality of your life, you become confined within those limitations leaving your goals, dreams, and aspirations a distant memory. Inevitably, we hide behind a wall of disappointment and failure.
Who are you outside of what people think about you? How focused are you on the public opinion of you? Do you value your opinion of yourself as much as you value the opinion of others? If your complete focus is on how people perceive you, it is time to change your mindset. YOU should be your worst critic and at the same time your biggest cheerleader. You absolutely cannot be that for yourself if you allow others to taint your view of how you see yourself.
People will always have an opinion, as they should. Whether or not those opinions lift you up or put you down is ultimately up to you. When you find yourself surrounded by people who see only the negative, it becomes a challenge to navigate your way through harsh criticisms and constant judgment. Knowing who you are deep down inside gives you a leg to stand on in the presence of opposition.
- What characteristics define who you are?
- What are your most important values?
- What are your goals and aspirations?
Remember that what God has created in you is who you are. Be true to that because that’s the only way you can successfully live in this world. We are each created in His image with qualities and characteristics of our own that may very well separate us from others. It is our charge to own those qualities and become who God created us to be.
You must always keep in mind who you are and walk in that daily. The opinions and actions of people as well as life circumstances should not block who you are meant to be. Give nothing or no one the power over your existence that can take away from the beauty that God has created in you. Your actions, attitude, and beliefs about yourself should reflect how you desire to live your life. This must be exhibited in every area of your life every day.
Resist being a pawn in the chess game of your own life, willingly allowing others to manipulate your every move. Many of us have lived this way for so long that it seems unthinkable to begin to experience life in a different way. Anger, resentment, self-pity, and our unwillingness to forgive settle in our hearts causing us to walk through our lives living in doubt of a better day. As a result, we fail to experience the beauty that life has to offer
So how do you block out those things that cause you to remain in the shadows of what you could have been or what you should have done? It is incredibly important to broaden your perspective on people and the circumstances that make up your life experiences. You must come to the realization that the only person you can change is you. It is also important to know that while people voice their concerns about situations concerning you, it is ultimately up to you as to how you allow it to affect your life. Regardless of what comes your way, be reminded of who you are, stay focused on where you are going, and resist the power of public opinion that aims to pull you away from the road which you travel.
How awesome it is to hear the approval of the ones close to you? To hear their excitement in something that you have accomplished fuels your own eagerness to press on towards accomplishing that much more. Praise, you may say, encourages you to be more; to do more. You see, with praise, you are aware that someone sees you. You can acknowledge that somebody out there, whether near or far, has noticed your efforts and are thereby extending recognition of that to you. Praise may bring a smile to our faces, a celebration of what we’ve done, and nothing short of satisfaction to our hearts. Could it be possible that with each task we take on and every goal we accomplish we could exist more profoundly in the world through the essence of what praise truly is? Many of us are lucky enough to have those close to us that sit proudly in the corners of our lives extending praise as we accomplishment our life assignments. But is praise the basis of momentum that propels one to greatness?
Criticism, on the other hand, hovers over you like a dark cloud. A constant, daunting reminder of where you fall short and the inconsistencies in life that you possess, can bring a feeling of unworthiness upon you. The words of others, though constructive as they may be, don’t always land in the positive realm of our consciousness, often stifling our efforts to do more; to be more. Criticism, some may argue, is an aid to our efforts to exist wholly and completely in this life. By embracing the poignant words of others can motivate us to reach further and become who we have not been. This statement indeed holds validation but only if the words spoken by another can promote the personal growth of an individual, instead of seeking to tear down walls of hope in the spirit.
I challenge you to look at both praise and criticism closely. While one may reign in optimism, the other, some believe takes its root in the harsh reality of negativity. It is important to note that it is not the act or words of praise or criticism, but the limits that these words spoken by others places on one’s life. At various times in your life, it is good practice to reflect on your own circumstances. Whether a business venture, a relationship, or a specific choice you have made in your life, you should be will to evaluate your decision which may cause you to be critical of your own actions. The power in this is the realization of your own mistakes, digging deep enough to find your strength, then becoming motivated to move past it and do better. What about praise, you may be asking. Hearing praise from those who support you is powerful but praising yourself is empowering. When you praise yourself, you cease to wait for others to notice your talents and your gifts. You are your own cheerleader and that alone can be life changing.
I encourage you to critique your life choices while at the same time praising your accomplishments. As you find fault within yourself causing you to stumble; stop, evaluate how you got there being totally honest with yourself; then, pick up the pieces, make a new plan and move forward. Don’t allow people to dictate your being in this world or your ability to achieve greatness. As you move on to prosperity, acknowledge your success, live in it, celebrate the gifts in you, use them not only for the benefit of yourself, but for that others. Celebrate your own value and worth even amidst the downfalls in your life. Remember where you used to be and how much you’ve grown in the process of life. Praise your own efforts to start a new day with a new vision for your future.
Refuse to allow yourself to become ensnared in the criticism or praise of people. You may find yourself centering your life around the approval of others. You may limit your successes as you wait for someone to recognize your achievements. Your life is not their life and the visions and dreams you hold inside are not theirs. They have their own and you have yours. You must embrace your own passion for life without looking for others to validate you with praise or deter you with criticism. In life there will be people that will come along to discourage you with criticism but let that not be a reason to stray from the path that you are to travel. Life will also bring about circumstances and people that will enhance the quality of your life, helping you to grow tremendously. But it is allowing the spirit of God in you that induces the praise and silences the criticisms in your life that is at the helm of your destiny.
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